I am a Clinical Hypnotherapist based in Buff Point, north of Sydney! I've enjoyed a long career in the Performing Arts, in 2020, I studied and qualified in a few awesome therapies. I make free sleep hypnosis videos that I hope will help people around the world, and I would love to share them here as I release them. I've had this blog since +- 2007 and love that it is changing with me as I grow...
Thursday, 27 February 2014
CONTEMPORARY PHILOSOPHERS
~ John Glenn
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When the white missionaries came to Africa they had the Bible and we had the land. They said 'Let us pray.' We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land.
~ Desmond Tutu
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America is the only country where a significant proportion of the population believes that professional wrestling is real but the moon landing was faked.
~ David Letterman
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I'm not a paranoid, deranged millionaire.
God dammit, I'm a billionaire.
~ Howard Hughes
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After the game, the King and the pawn go into the same box.
~ Italian proverb
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Men are like linoleum floors. Lay 'em right and you can walk all over them for thirty years.
~ Betsy Salkind
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The only reason they say 'Women and children first' is to test the strength of the lifeboats.
~ Jean Kerr
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I've been married to a communist and a fascist, and neither would take out the garbage.
~ Zsa Zsa Gabor
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You know you're a redneck if your home has wheels and your car doesn't.
~ Jeff Foxworthy
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When a man opens a car door for his wife, it's either a new car or a new wife.
~ Prince Philip
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A computer once beat me at chess, but it was no match for me at kickboxing.
~ Emo Philips.
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Wood burns faster when you have to cut and chop it yourself.
~ Harrison Ford
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The best cure for sea sickness, is to sit under a tree.
~ Spike Milligan
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Lawyers believe a man is innocent until proven broke.
~ Robin Hall
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Kill one man and you're a murderer, kill a million and you're a conqueror.
~ Jean Rostand.
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Having more money doesn't make you happier. I have 50 million dollars but I was just as happy as when I had 48 million.
~ Arnold Schwarzenegger.
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We are here on earth to do good unto others. What the others are here for, I have no idea.
~ WH Auden
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In hotel rooms I worry. I can't be the only guy who sits on the furniture naked.
~ Jonathan Katz
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If life were fair Elvis would still be alive today and all the impersonators would be dead.
~ Johnny Carson
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I don't believe in astrology. I am a Sagittarius and we're very skeptical.
~ Arthur C. Clarke
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Hollywood must be the only place on earth where you can be fired by a man wearing a Hawaiian shirt and a baseball cap.
~ Steve Martin
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Home cooking. Where many a man thinks his wife is.
~ Jimmy Durante
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America is so advanced that even the chairs are electric.
~ Doug Hamwell
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The first piece of luggage on the carousel never belongs to anyone.
~ George Roberts
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If God had intended us to fly he would have made it easier to get to the airport.
~ Jonathan Winters
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Regards,
Sandy Bigara
www.sandybigara.com
Wednesday, 26 February 2014
First Mondays Sandy Bigara LIVE at ITSTABOO Durban
VERY excited to announce my next upcoming gig at ItsTaboo!
MONDAY 3rd MARCH
Doors open 7pm, show starts 8pm.
R50pp and bar available - awesome venue, lots of gorgeous couches to just relax and chill out on.
LIVE music - piano and guitar with vocals by myself www.sandybigara.com - Looking forward to it!!
Directions to ItsTaboo:
226 Matthews Meyiwa. If you go up Argyle/Sandile Thusi from Umgeni rd, go right into Matthews Meyiwa just opposite Mr Price Home store. The venue is on the right about 800m along.
Or even better - From Umgeni rd you go up SILVER Ave (Umgeni river side of Argyle/Sandile Thusi and opposite train tracks) and turn right into Matthews Meyiwa, ItsTaboo is directly below BISHOP RD T-Junction with Matthews, and above 'The Lounge' (The Lounge is on googlemaps)
Monday, 24 February 2014
Sandy Bigara First Mondays LIVE at ItsTaboo
Well here it is! The first gig! I will be here the first Monday of each month :)
ItsTaboo Durban
MONDAY 3rd MARCH
Doors open 7pm, show starts 8pm.
R50pp and bar available - awesome venue, lots of gorgeous couches to just relax and chill out on.
LIVE music - piano and guitar with vocals by myself www.sandybigara.com - Looking forward to it!!
Directions to ItsTaboo:
226 Matthews Meyiwa. If you go up Argyle/Sandile Thusi from Umgeni rd, go right into Matthews Meyiwa just opposite Mr Price Home store. The venue is on the right about 800m along.
Or even better - From Umgeni rd you go up SILVER Ave (Umgeni river side of Argyle/Sandile Thusi and opposite train tracks) and turn right into Matthews Meyiwa, ItsTaboo is directly below BISHOP RD T-Junction with Matthews, and above 'The Lounge' (The Lounge is on googlemaps)
Rehearsing already... got some new classics and some gorgeous classical pieces to sing... Think Andrea Bocelli... :)
See you there!
Regards,
Sandy Bigara
www.sandybigara.com
Just Yours Audience Reviews
JUST YOURS by Sandy Bigara has just completed their run – Set in Durban 1943, Just Yours is a Historical South African Romance (Comedy/Drama PG13) with lots of laughs and plenty memories. Based on factual events and featuring the local hot spots of Durban 1943 – filled with music (live performance) of the era.
To watch some clips of the show:
http://sandyramblings.blogspot.com/2014/02/film-reel-just-yours-wwii-historical.html?m=1
To meet the cast:
http://sandyramblings.blogspot.com/2014/01/just-yours-meet-cast-wwii-romance-at.html
To book tickets to see the show:
http://online.computicket.com/web/event/just_yours/796222306
Audience Reviews:
“Just Yours! Wow! What an honest great performance. A love story told with such sincerity and simplicity! A really perfect way to 'celebrate' our Valentines weekend! Merci!” – Khanyo Maubert
“I haven't laughed that hard in ages.” – Rachel Basckin
“You guys did a beautiful job!” – Amy Wilson
“Thanks for a fantastic show! My hubby and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Awesome!” – Catherine Schmuhl
“The show was awesome. Well done to all of you, but especially to you. We LOVED it” – Celeste Adonis
“Thanks for a wonderful afternoon of entertainment with 'Just Yours'! Duncan is walking on air reliving his WW2 days” – Moya O’Donoghue
“Thank you… my Parents… they had a ball!” – Sue Morris
“It was an unbelievable experience, I shared a little bit of my parents history last night! Absolutely Brilliant, love love loved it ! So much happened for real, touched my heart , specially "Oh Danny Boy” – Coleen Matthews
“I thoroughly enjoyed the show Sands. Tear jerking moments, people in the audience cracking up over Barney, love and romance ... We just don't get good theatre like this these days. Well done!” – Francis Doherty-Bigara
“I was one of them that laughed and sang along...amazing show and well done Sandy to you and all the team...a lot of my mates just HAVE to go see it!!” - Marilyn Davies
“I went to your show tonight and I just wanted to tell you how beautiful it was! Truly special.” Yasmin McCready
“I really enjoyed Saturday's show! Great performance. Exceeded my expectations. Florence can really sing, wow! I thought it was a recording.” - Luke Everton
“The show was awesome thanks so much, you should do more singing in the show you have an awesome voice. I'm hooked now, my wife had stars in her eyes haven't seen that in a long time. Once again thank you.” - Harry Deklerk
Friday, 21 February 2014
Venezuela is Burning Shocking Images
What can be done?
http://caracaschronicles.com/2014/02/20/dark-days-in-san-cristobal-where-it-all-started/
http://caracaschronicles.com/2014/02/20/why-venezuela-is-entering-a-dangerous-new-phase/
http://caracaschronicles.com/2014/02/20/the-game-changed/
Regards,
Sandy Bigara
www.sandybigara.com
Thursday, 20 February 2014
Open Letter on How to Treat Your Waiter
A Scene from PUNCH, OR THE LONDON CHARIVARI.
Vol. 101. Published July 4, 1891.
“Augustus (penitently). Never mind—I won't do it again. Here 's our Waiter at last. Now we're all right!
[The Waiter puts a dish down upon another table, and advances with the air of a family friend who brings bad tidings.
Horatia. Will you kindly let us have that trout at once?
The Waiter (bending down to AUGUSTUS with pity and sympathy). Fery sôry to dell you, esbecially after keebin you so long vaiting, bot (thinks how he can break it most gently) ve haf zo many beople hier to-day, and zey haf shust dold me in ze gitchen zere is no more drout. Zis hote vedder ze drout, he vill nod stay!
Augustus (mildly). No, of course not—well, let me see, now, what can you—?
The E.A. Here, you Kellner, come here, can't you? What the—
Waiter (to AUGUSTUS). Von minute. I gom back bresently. (To E.A.) You vant your pill, Sir, yes?
The E.A. (exploding). My bill! Confound it! I want something to eat first. When is that Bisque coming?
Waiter. Ach, peg your bardon, ve haf peen so pusy all day. Your Bisque vill pe retty diregly. I go to vetch him. [He goes.
Horatia. Now we're farther off from getting any food than ever! I suppose you mean to do something, AUGUSTUS?
Augustus. Of course—certainly. I shall speak very strongly. (Bleating.) Waiter!
Horatia (with scorn). Do you imagine they will pay the least attention to a noise like a sixpenny toy? Lot them see you insist upon being obeyed.
Augustus. I am—I mean, I will—I am very much annoyed. (Fiercely.) Wa-ai-ter!
A Stern Waiter (appearing suddenly.) You vant somsing, Sir?
Augustus (apologetically). Yes; we should—er—like something to eat—anything—so long as you can bring it at once, if you don't mind. "We—this Lady is rather in a hurry, and we've waited some little time already, you see.
The Waiter. Peg your bardon, zis is nod my daple. I send your Vaiter. [He vanishes.
The E.A. Scandalous! over twenty minutes we've been here! Ha! at last! (A Waiter appears with a tureen, which he uncovers.) Here, what do you call this??....”
Sandy Bigara (2014): And now, as you can see – Waiters have been getting rough treatment since at least… 1891? And I do NOT agree with ill treatment of any staff at any event – I think that Becks put it quite succinctly in the following open letter to all patrons globally.
Open Letter:
HOW TO TREAT YOUR WAITER WHEN YOU EAT OUT AT A RESTAURANT: THE WAITER’S VIEW
Tipping
To be a waiter often requires long hours of work. We run up and down with very short breaks, especially if one is working a double shift which usually goes from around 10am to 11pm/12pm (that’s a 13 to 14 hour shift)
Money is made off of tips from our customers, and the standard is usually a 10% tip, or more if you feel the waiter deserves it, and has gone out of their way to serve you.
The reason I'm bringing this up is because there are many patrons who don't seem to understand the concept of tipping. Either tips are extremely low or completely non-existent. There are cases where a patron has every right not to tip, for example if the waitron has been outright rude or service from the waiter has been terrible. But, in the case where you have received good service and you are satisfied, it is only courteous to tip 10% to show your appreciation. As I said, waiters rely completely on tips.
Now, obviously it is your money and you are free to do with it what you please, but please consider that you have received a service - and it’s never nice to have to work for free (YOU wouldn’t work for free). There have been times where I have received R2 tips or similar, on bills that were R500 or over... These larger bills have usually required lots of work, fetching drinks, food, and catering to other requests (which is in our job description of course, so it’s no issue at all) and as far as I know, a job well done deserves payment. These very low tips often come with no complaint about bad service, and in fact often the patrons will have complimented for good service. So why the low tip? Unless your waiter has been a nightmare and really doesn't deserve it, consider a decent tip next time you are eating out.
Treatment of Waiters
There are Patrons who scream at waiters, and treat their waiter like a dog… for things that are completely beyond the waiters control – these Patrons need a wake up call. Screaming and swearing at a waiter because you don't like the food, or because the food is taking longer than you expected, is completely unnecessary. You are actually the one being rude in that instance.
The waiter does not control how the food tastes or how long it takes to prepare (Unless the food took longer because your waiter forgot to fetch it from the food station and deliver it to your table - in which case you will usually be able to tell as the food will have gone cold), please in future, address your complaints to a Manager who can take it up with the Kitchen staff.
A customer who screams and loses their temper with a waiter usually only succeeds in making them self look bad. Please keep in mind; some things are beyond the waiter’s control, so it isn't necessary to scream at them for it. As a waiter myself, if I have an issue with quality of food or the length of time when I eat out, I politely request that the waitron speaks to the chef or calls the manager for me. The only time I moan at a waitron is if they are rude and/or unhelpful when an issue arises. But the way some customers behave is inexcusable. I have had customers who have reduced me to tears, screaming in my face, for things that really didn't have anything to do with me. A waitron is essentially a messenger between you and the kitchen. We take the order, put it through and then bring it out when it is done. What happens in between is out of our hands for the most part.
It seems a lot of people forget that waiters are human beings, with other endeavours in their lives, and loved ones who care about them. Many of us are students and similar.
Suggestion
How I like to think of it: Treat the person how you would like your son/daughter to be treated if they were working as waiters.
I'm sure those customers who rant and rave inappropriately would not enjoy their own children/family/friends being treated in such a way. As I have said a few times, it is a different story if your waitron is rude, but otherwise my point stands.
Original article written by Becks J MacFarlane.
Edited by Sandy Bigara
Tuesday, 18 February 2014
Final Week of Just Yours WWII Romance set in Durban 1943 @ The Catalina
JUST YOURS by Sandy Bigara is in it’s final week – Set in Durban 1943, Just Yours is a Historical South African Romance (Comedy/Drama PG13) with lots of laughs and plenty memories. Based on factual events and featuring the local hot spots of Durban 1943 – filled with music (live performance) of the era.
To watch some clips of the show:
http://sandyramblings.blogspot.com/2014/02/film-reel-just-yours-wwii-historical.html?m=1
To meet the cast:
http://sandyramblings.blogspot.com/2014/01/just-yours-meet-cast-wwii-romance-at.html
To book tickets to see the show:
http://online.computicket.com/web/event/just_yours/796222306
R100 per person, or R160 for dinner & show.
Thurs 20th 7pm, Fri 21st 7pm and Saturday 22nd 2pm Matinee, with the finale at Saturday 22nd 7pm.
Reviews:
“I haven't laughed that hard in ages.” – Rachel Basckin
“You guys did a beautiful job!” – Amy Wilson
“Thanks for a fantastic show! My hubby and I thoroughly enjoyed it. Awesome!” – Catherine Schmuhl
“The show was awesome. Well done to all of you, but especially to you. We LOVED it” – Celeste Adonis
“Thanks for a wonderful afternoon of entertainment with 'Just Yours'! Duncan is walking on air reliving his WW2 days” – Moya O’Donoghue
“Thank you… my Parents… they had a ball!” – Sue Morris
“It was an unbelievable experience, I shared a little bit of my parents history last night! Absolutely Brilliant, love love loved it ! So much happened for real, touched my heart , specially "Oh Danny Boy” – Coleen Matthews
“I thoroughly enjoyed the show Sands. Tear jerking moments, people in the audience cracking up over Barney, love and romance ... We just don't get good theatre like this these days. Well done!” – Francis Doherty-Bigara
“I was one of them that laughed and sang along...amazing show and well done Sandy to you and all the team...a lot of my mates just HAVE to go see it!!” - Marilyn Davies
“I went to your show tonight and I just wanted to tell you how beautiful it was! Truly special.” Yasmin McCready
Sandy Bigara
(c) +27 (0) 82 865 0226 (w) 031 8278 991
- Piano & Vocals for any functions (over 150 Modern and contemporary songs, golden oldies, jazz, blues, opera and light classical)
- Stand-up Comedy.
- MC events/eventing & Keynote Speaker.
- Children's Educational Shows (utilizing high levels of audience interaction - with a firm control over my young audiences)
- Educational Work Experience Talks (for High school about my career and profession in the Arts)
- I am a Survivor of Woman & Child Abuse and have a very inspiring life story of overcoming all odds, and of forgiveness.
Tuesday, 4 February 2014
FILM REEL Just Yours WWII Historical Romance set in Durban 1943
#JustYours2014 "For I was born to be, just yours..."
FILM REEL
- "Love and Deployment" Blooper Reel
- "Mills & Boon" Comedy
- "Florence singing... and some other Scenes" (by Clive Read)
Bookings:
Historical South African Romance (Comedy/Drama PG13)
Catalina Theatre, 18 Boatman's way, Wilson's Wharf Entrance #2
www.catalinatheatre.com
FEBRUARY 6th - 22nd (12 performances only)
Starring:
Chanel Julie-Anne Meager (Ada)
VIDEOS! Just Yours Historical Romance in Durban 1943
Monday, 3 February 2014
Just Yours Historical WWII Romance Sneak Peek on Youtube!
Well, Thanks to Clive Read and his lovely assistant, we now have a teeny tiny snippet of Just Yours on VIDEO :)
If you would like to take your sweel gal out for a night on the town - then visit us in 1943 as we follow the love story of Ada and Daniel...
#JustYours2014
"For I was born to be, just yours..."
http://sandyramblings.blogspot.com/2014/01/just-yours-meet-cast-wwii-romance-at.html
http://online.computicket.com/web/event/just_yours/796222306
Historical South African Romance (Comedy/Drama PG13)
Catalina Theatre, 18 Boatman's way, Wilson's Wharf Entrance #2
FEBRUARY 6th - 22nd
Sunday, 2 February 2014
Gisele Turners Creative Drama Studio Supports Home School Kids in Durban!
Philip Seymour Hoffman Has Been Found Dead RIP
Sources: http://variety.com/2014/film/news/wsj-report-philip-seymour-hoffman-found-dead-in-new-york-1201082934/
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2550540/Philip-Seymour-Hoffman-dies-46-Oscar-winning-actor-dead-Manhattan-apartment.html#ixzz2sC0Ih0RA
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